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[把妹理论] 晚熟青年原创翻译《雄性领袖的十大特质》

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Top 10 Alpha Male Traits
Here areour Top 10 Alpha Male Traits – these alpha male characteristicsare common to all natural leaders, and naturally confident men. If you want tofollow in their footsteps then see which of these traits you lack and adjustyour behaviour accordingly; The Alpha Male:
Never Qualifies Himself: Thealpha male makes no apologies, he doesn’t explain his behavior. he iscompletely comfortable in his own skin so he doesn’t need to. They don’t boastabout their success or try and prove anything – again they don’t need to; theyassume you will like them simply because other people do, but they don’t careif you don’t – they won’t chase after you for your validation, they don’t care.
Talks Slow: Notice when youtalk to someone you look up to you will talk faster – Talking fast is a way toqualify yourself to someone – essentially you are scared they will stoplistening or find some more interesting stimulous, so you get your point outquick so they will listen – it actually has the opposite effect, and it showsyour lower status.
Doesn’t Look Around: He is the party andthe focus of attention – he is unconcerned with what other people are doing.
Is The Focus of Attention: He iscentrally positioned in the group, everyones body language faces him and ispositive towards him – you can tell the alpha male of the group just by lookingat them. Expect to be the focus and position yourself to be so, step up withinyour group and you will start to take on this dominant role.
Take The Glory: When you tell afunny joke they take it one further and steal the laugh, when you do somethingcool they congratualte  you for it and give you their approval. When youhave an idea they acknowledge it and add to it – giving their approval andtweaking the idea it becomes their own, and they get the credit for it.
Are Never Impressed: They can be selfcentered and unimpressed with the achievements of others. They are highachievers themselves and strive for success so they have seen it all before –it takes a lot, or a really high value to impress them – they have high standardson every level.
Enjoy a Challenge: They enjoy makingfriends with beta males, but with another alpha guy they often become“enemies”. The alpha male needs to be the alpha at all times and will competewith another male for the dominant position – if he is really the alpha male hewill enjoy this opportunity.
Don’t Answer Questions: Theyoften give a non-sensical or a basic response to questions you ask them whereyou are trying for conversation, trying to find common ground, or trying forreport – by asking you to “guess” they are controling the frame and leading theinteraction and keeping their alpha male status.
Don’t Care About You: they are selffocused, you are there to entertain them, but they are above you – he believesworld evolves around him and everyone is there to help him, entertain him orsleep with him – as he chooses.
Can Show A Nicer Side and Get Away With It: Thisgoes back to not caring what people think. he can be nice / genuine / down toearth if he wants to and on the occasions that he is he gets even more creditfor it – he isn’t a geek trying to be nice for validation, he is a cool guy whohas a down to earth side sometimes.
Is Comfortable In His Own Skin:Ultimately he is comfortable within his own skin, this is one of the the mainalpha male characteristics, and if you can be comfortable in your own skin theneverything else will follow. He doesn’t care what people think, he is assertiveenough to give his own opinion, and he is happy and confident in any situation.
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晚熟青年原创翻译《雄性领袖的十大特质》
下面是雄性领袖的十大特质——这些雄性领袖特质是所有天生的领袖和自信男人所共有的。如果你想追随他们的足迹,那就看一看哪些特质是你缺少的,然后相应地去调整你的行为。雄性领袖具有:
1. 从不自我筛选(Never Qualifies Himself):雄 性领袖从不道歉,从不解释他的行为。他对自己安然自若,因而无需如此。他们从不吹嘘他们的成功,也不试图证明什么——还是因为他们无需如此;他们假定你会 喜欢他们,仅仅是因为其他人都喜欢他们,但如果你不喜欢他们,他们也不在乎——他们不会追逐你以获得你的认同,他们不在乎。
2. 慢慢谈话(Talks Slow):注 意一下,当你跟高高在上的人谈话时,你的谈话会比较快——快速的谈话是向他人证明自己能力的一种方式——实质上,你害怕他们会不再听你谈话,或是去寻找其 他更有吸引力的事物,因而你便尽快谈到你的要点,以为这样他们就会听下去——这实际上适得其反,而且显示出较低的地位。
3. 不东张西望(Doesn’t Look Around):他是热闹中心和关注焦点——他对其他人正在做的事情并不感兴趣。
4. 是关注焦点(Is The Focus of Attention):他处于团体的中心位置,所有人的身体语言都朝向他,并对他积极有利——你只要看一下就能认出团体中的雄性领袖。期待着成为焦点并对自己进行这样的定位,在你的圈子里晋级,那么你将开始进入统治角色。
5. 带走荣耀(Take The Glory):当你讲了一个有趣的笑话,他们则剽窃去,并偷走笑果;当你做了某件很酷的事情,他们则向你祝贺,并给予你他们的认可;当你有了一个点子,他们则给予认同并加以添补——给予他们的肯定,并将这个点子强扭成他们自己的,然后他们将其荣耀据为己有。
6. 从不赞叹(Are Never Impressed):面对别人的成就,他们能以自我为中心,显得不露声色。他们自身是高度成功者,为成功不断奋斗,因此他们以前既已亲睹一切——只有极大的成功或很高的价值才能使他们发出赞叹——他们在各个级别上都具有很高的标准。
7. 享受挑战(Enjoy a Challenge):他们乐于跟雄性随从(beta males)为友,但却经常跟其他雄性领袖为“敌”。雄性领袖必需始终是领袖,并且将与其他雄性争夺统治地位——如果他是真正的雄性领袖,他会享受这个机会的。
8. 不回答问题(Don’t Answer Questions):如果你问他们的问题以试图展开对话、或试图寻找共同点、或试图进行报道,他们经常给出无意义或很基本的答案——他们会叫你去“猜”。他们控制了框架,引导了互动过程,并保持了他们的领袖地位。
9. 不在乎你(Don’t Care About You):他们聚焦于自我,你在那里是为了让他们开心,但对你而言,他们高高在上——他相信地球围绕着他转,每个人在那里都为他服务、哄他开心、或跟他上*床——任他去挑。
10. 能展示和蔼的一面,也能避免这样(Can Show A Nicer Side and Get AwayWith It):这又回到了不在乎别人怎么想的那一条。只要他愿意或在他为了得到更多信誉的情况下,他可以表现得和蔼可亲/纯真/朴实无华——他们不是那些试图表现和蔼以寻求认同的怪胎,而是一个时而能展现其纯真一面的酷男。
11. 我自感觉良好(Is Comfortable In His Own Skin):最后一点,他自我感觉良好,这是雄性领袖的主要特质之一。如果你能做到自我感觉良好,那么其他一切都会从心所欲。他不在乎人们怎么想,他有足够的自信来自谋主意,而且在任何情况下他都充满快乐和信心。
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不错,不过这还得看性格
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最近对一女孩说她不是我喜欢的类型,接着她就不理偶了

正好学习,给她所谓的【很男人】的感觉
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